That women are encouraged to express the sensitivities associated with joy and tenderness is one of the character traits men claim to like so much about women; yet, the disparity in gender styles is ultimately conflicted since there is rarely any crossover, or overlapping that is capable of producing the satisfaction in relationships whether at work or at leisure. This unfortunate inheritance appears to be a national affliction that has no cure since men are embarrassed showing positive emotions, and women are discouraged from showing negative emotions. A positive and negative charge equals 0, last I heard, and cancel each other out. Could this be the secret forumula for gender engagement and satisfaction?